Chapter
38: Artificial Love: The Secret Worlds of iDollators
iDollators’
Motivations:
1. Sexually Curious
2. Physically Disqualified
3. Rejected and Wary
4. Sad
5. Handicapped
6. Sexually Unfulfilled
7. Fearful
8. Ashamed
iDollators’ Real Doll Functions:
1. combat their loneliness, sadness, and/or grief.
2. deal with their past (or anticipated) anxiety and
difficulties
3. improved their self-images and identities
4. allowed sexually-prohibited behavior, while avoiding
deviant stigma
5. (not described in this chapter) engage in artistic
expression
How did the men discussed in this chapter use these dolls in their search for meaning and acceptance? How are they similar to or different from others in search of sex and/or relationships?
Chapter 39: Trading
Sex for Crack: Gender and Power
Two Myths:
1. Addictive Power
2. Hypersexuality
Six Features of the
Sex for Crack Exchange
1. Drug Effects and Gender
2. Negotiations
3. Crack, Sex, and Violence
4. Dope Boys and Sugar Daddies
5. The Lure of Sex, the Lure of the Drug
6. The Game Turns on You
~dynamics of power
Chapter
40:
Selling Excitement: Gender Roles
at the Male Strip Show
Gender Roles Reversed or
Reinforced?
Gender role transcendence
Physical
Interactions with Customers:
1. Dominating
2. Aggressive Touching
3. Humiliating
Dancers’ Hypermasculine Presentation of Self: body technologies
1. Outfits
2. Diet and exercise
3. Steroids
4. Skin
5. Erections
Aggressive Women:
How do some women try to achieve gender role transcendence?
Are they successful or not? Why?