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Question 6: "I'm in a relationship with a man who loves control. I often give in, then feel like I've been walked on. I seldom get my way. Any suggestions?"
Kiro:
When people can balance wanting control
and giving it up, relationships will become healthier.
Man in your life must learn to share control with you.
You must learn to take it.He will need to soften his attitude,
you will need to harden yours.
He may feel vulnerable giving up control.
You may feel awkward taking it.
To improve your relationship,
both of you will need to change.When you do, resentment and conflict will give way
to more love and harmony.
Seeing what you will both get from change,
it is time to begin making it.